10 keys on Christian marriage

1. Marriage was established by God himself. It is a sacred covenant, is the basis for the formation of home and family, is a civil contract, is the unity of two beings who love and celebrate their covenant before God and the church.

2. The family, home and home are different terms. Example: Roma, indigenous desert nomads moving from one place to another, but maintain their identity as a family and where it is located is home.

3. The basic hallmarks of a household are: the quality of relations that unite them in bonds of love, b. mutual aid, c. consideration, understanding ch.la d, mutual respect, and e. sacrifice personal interests for the welfare of the whole family. In short it is where I feel appreciated, understood, loved and accepted despite my shortcomings. In an atmosphere of love, peace and security.

4. The secret of happiness in a marriage is in the preservation of a strong and firm relationship between God, husband, wife. Where the couple and their children have a higher loyalty to their own desires and passions. This means the marriage is successful only when it follows the order of God and let Him deal with a home position.

5. In marriage, instead of defending each other "rights" is more joy in seeking the good and happiness of the spouse, helping each other to achieve maximum personal development. Not in the rebuke, but the service is where Christian love is expressed. Each one tries to understand the point of view of others, seeks to fill the needs of your partner, your decisions are trying to reach an agreement before proceeding, maintain transparency in their relations avoiding appearances and secrets.

6. In the divine plan referred 6 purposes of marriage: a. Companionship; b. complementation, ch. Union d. procreation; e. authority; f. Testimony. There are also four characteristics of the conjugal union: a. Physical b. spiritual c. Single, ch. Permanent.

7. When there is a decision to marry, this should include: a. Search and permanence of an intimate relationship with Jesus Christ; b. setting goals, ideals and priorities; c. Measuring emotional maturity or Search, ch. Intellectually prepared for marriage d. socially prepared for it, e. Let God do his will.

8. You must decide the order of importance they will have their different activities and occupations in life, perhaps you could ask: Are they for me most important spiritual values that the materials? Values "temporary or longer lasting? What activities will take first place in my life? What do I do with my life? What kind of person I want to be and with whom to be?

9. When you are in love, it is difficult to think clearly about the direction of our lives and we may let ourselves be guided more by the heart than the head. But an important and permanent decision, which so deeply affects the future direction of life, not be done on a purely emotional. Requires calm, prudence and wisdom.

10. The fable "married and lived happily ever after" is not true, the marriage is not just plain sailing, problems arise. It is possible that two different people are in harmony at all times, both spouses retain their own personality and love in itself is not sufficient to cover these differences. But the key is emotional maturity, which is the ability to manage emotions in any situation, to consider rationally the problems that arise, to listen and understand the point of view of others ...
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